This morning, on Independence Day, I glanced through the usual newspaper articles about where this country is going, what our young people think, what do our celebrities have to say - all the usual stuff. One sentence jumped out and grabbed me by the collar. A young lady states that "India is a patient country."
How very true, and how very insightful. India is today 65 years old as an independent nation - and I am not getting into any debate about the times of the Mauryas, Guptas, etal. Also, no jokes about 65 years old, hence a senior citizen. 65 is quite young for a nation.
I am impressed by the word "patient". I am 59 going on 60, and I can remember the pride with which my parents talked of Aug 15th, 1947, and the dreams for a new India which was going to be built. I remember, vividly, their passion and their love for this new India, in spite of the pain of partition, food riots, dependency on PL480 funds, not much milk to feed me, etc etc.
It was a dream in the minds of my parents, and millions of others like them. The leaders were trusted, they had sacrificed so much to get us Independence, they had suffered so much.
Dr Bidhan Chandra Roy was the then CM of West Bengal, and he was a practicing physician who had the common touch - in fact, I was taken to him as a baby for consultation, that's what my granny told me. Pandit Nehru, for all his upper class afflictions, and his stance against Netaji, was still trusted, though he certainly did not win the hearts and minds of my parents as completely as did Dr Roy. But, he was trusted and somewhat liked as well.
I remember how slowly their idealism faded. My father passed away just a few years ago, but till then, he still felt that India would make it big. Yes, he had hoped that it would happen in his lifetime, but okay, didn't happen. Then he had hoped it would happen in his son's lifetime. Well...somethings did happen, but no, not all of it. When he passed away, he said that this will definitely happen in the lifetime of his grandson, though he would not be alive to see it.
What he did mean by "making it big?" What did he want to happen? Very simple, really. Everybody would get a good square meal a day, a decent place to live in, a fair chance of going to school and get a decent education, a fair chance of getting a decent job with which he or she could sustain a family and educate their kids. And all these getting perpetuated over many generations.
No more starvation, no more starvation suicides, no more selling daughters into prostitution to provide for the next meal, etc. No more food riots. No more bribery, no more corruption. No more tugging your forelocks at your politicians and babus - after all, the spirit of nation building will make them honest, wouldn't it?
My mother's dream faded quite a bit faster than my dad's. For years now, she has no dreams about the future, except for whatever relates to her grandson. A one-time card-holding member of the undivided Communist Party of India, she tore this into little bits out of sheer disgust when Jyoti Basu became the CM of West Bengal. I remember the long tirades she used to launch into when I was still in school, and asked her questions about the political developments in post-Independence Day India. Then she clammed up, and refused to entertain questions like those anymore.
They had lost patience.
But India did not. I did not, nor did my wife or our friends. We felt that good things will happen - not just to us, but to all Indians.
And, yes, good things, some good things at least, did happen. P V Narasimha Rao happened, Manmohan Singh as FM (not the recent PM avatar) happened. Liberalisation happened.
Growth happened. All the usual pundits - Montek, Kamath, Gurcharan Das, ad infinitum ad nauseam - tell us all about it, and how good this is. They don't, of course, talk about what did not happen : redistribution of wealth - there are three estimates of the population below poverty line: these range from 28.5% to 38% to 50%. Scary, right? I don't which figure is correct - but they are all equally scary.
Kashmir is still a problem. China is still a threat. Many of the have-nots in India probably believe that they now belong to a new class - the never-will-haves.
I am losing patience, and fast.
India remains patient. She is built like that.
Will all Indians remain patient? And for all how long?